It’s 7 pm Friday, its 95 degrees…
I am very proud when it comes to my sexuality, and nowadays my anatomy. Every time, either after or before our class, there’s usually a bunch of us girls being girls talking about love, sex, our bodies, skin care. You’d be shocked how much of contribution I make to the sex topic being a virgin. Of course ,this isn’t everybody’s cup of tea, the rest are usually just talking about studies and all that. Don’t get me wrong, I’m actually a nerd (sort of).
We had an endocrinology class last week, and while we were learning about the hormone progesterone and how it brings about growth of breasts and our lecturer said, “breasts are actually an enlarged/expanded skin then the fat and all that just starts filling in.” That got me thinking a lot, because as obvious as that sounds, I never thought about it that way. It hit me that that’s why when my boobs started growing at 11 it was so painful. When I was that young, I hated my boobs. I hated the fact that I was maturing faster than the rest of the girls in my class. I hated how painful it was, and how much my boobs were touched, not by boys, but by girls. The girls who were touching them just wanted to feel mine because mine had grown, theirs had not, and we were just learning about ourselves. I kind of got it, because no one taught us anything about it, we were just told, breasts grow. But, there was this specific girl who was enjoying it a little too much. I mean-girl, let me not be the reason you come out as a lesbian to your Catholic Kenyan mom, because you will be disowned. She grew her pair of boobs though and left mine alone lol.
In my country, for some people, this isn’t usually a topic to even discuss with your mom. Luckily, for me, my mom is kind of cool, but back then I was extremely shy, I didn’t ask her anything, like do I start wearing bras or boob tops? or tell her that the reason I’m slouching is because my nipples are showing through my shirt. They just assumed I’m doing that because I’m tall and ashamed.
NO, NO, NOOO, little girl was just embarrassed.
21 year old me loves her boobs a lot. I don’t know, I might be obsessed for real. I recently noticed that most of the tops I own, either show a very beautiful cleavage or some boob. Thing is, I love it. You might think I own such clothes to get attention from boys or whatever, I don’t care about that though. I dress because I feel good and I look good.
When my girls and I talk, some say that they don’t like their boobs, either they are too small or too big. Actually, no. They always say that their boobs are so small. In my mind I’m usually thinking, girl look at your body, your boobs just suit you, you look good, you’re blessed.
There’s this girl on Tiktok who as her handle says really is our online bestie, she has big boobs, and there’s usually people, mostly men, who criticize her for the size of her breasts, but her comments are full of girls who are just fan-girling over her. Like we don’t even care for the boobs, we don’t even see them, we’re just looking at your pretty face and laughing at your content girl. I love girlhood for real. The haters though go to an extent sending her breast reduction prices, offers and such. The girl is way too confident though, she doesn’t give AF. (she’s better than me, because I may have cried for a few days, or crashed out on the internet) I am pro reduction though, if that’s a choice a person has made on their own. These ‘girls’ are heavy, I get it, I am not in support of it if its just insecurity fueled by a few comments.
My niece, started growing her boobs and luckily for her, I gave her a boobs talk and a menstruation talk probably 3 years prior. She may have been traumatized of the thought of bleeding through her coochie, but she got the message. She’ll thank me later.
Bottom-line, Big boobs on tall babes, or short babes, thick or petite babes, with a big ass or no ass, small boobs on either, or no boobs at all:
All boobs are good boobs.
All boobs are beautiful boobs, and while we’re on it
All booty is beautiful booty as well
Hey.
I wish y’all an amazing weekend
lots of love,
Caroline <333
Girl I love the way you write, so entertaining I dont want it to end!! I love those topic. For a girl boobs are important (for me at least) and absolutely you should love them the way they are just like the rest of your body, it is uniquely you and nobody else have it so show some love to yourself!! Im also obsessed with this song😭😭